Monday, May 21, 2012

What happens on the third date?

Now this is a question the person i visited last time posed to me. Honestly, i don't know the answer. I am hoping you would help me find out.
I don't know the answer because i have not been on a third date with these broad chested macho men, they never impress enough or give me a reason to go on a third one.A practical example.
This guy with the unique name i know calls me,invites me for lunch that day am out shopping with my sweet sis so we meet at a restaurant in town.The jamaa having to impress the lady (moi) tells me to order, i look at his shoes, YES shoes and have pity on him. Fries and chicken.he orders TEA. At the brink of Nairobi's hot weather, tea? i shrug.
Chit chat here and there the bill comes.the guy looks at it then that's when he decides to go receive a phone call.15 minutes later no sign.Being the feminist i am, i payed the bill while the son of a man was 'receiving a phone call'

Days later called by another one, responsible this time and i gladly decline the offer in the most charming of ways, thanks to charisma. 

I am not saying all men would do that but niggah please be who you are. "I am who i am",even God said that when Moses asked Him who he was.I do not sleep in church like u do. Anyway piece of advice ladies have cash on a date and gentlemen do not stretch over your elastic limit, u will break.

Back to the agenda, what happens because we have talked all there is, we have passed the formalities. Do not think am scared, i just don't know how to handle such a strong adversarial.but worry not, SaFeminist got it all planned out. Watch this space.

Tuesday, May 15, 2012

SaFeminist Diary: Getting To Know Me

SaFeminist Diary: Getting To Know Me:  Definition Feminism is a collection of movements aimed at defining, establishing, and defending equal political, economic, and social ...

Getting To Know Me

 Definition

Feminism is a collection of movements aimed at defining, establishing, and defending equal political, economic, and social rights for women. 
Well i wouldn't focus on the political as such but rather the economical and SOCIAL part of feminism.(underline the social part) am a lady u know and a pretty one as such.Thank God.
okay straight to the point now, am sick and tired of these men running all over town broad chested like they sit on the throne of humanity. 
SaFeminist is here to change all that, relax girls and fellows be warned.


What led to change of heart and mind.

 My grandfather robbed his wife (grandma) of all their matrimonial property and he remarried their family friend.Shame.
My first aunt was battered by her husband to death.
My mother, that's another story for another day.
You get where am getting at, don't you?

Today's Agenda.

Heading to town in a few to meet, a guy, what should i wear, any suggestions? *winks*