I have these two guys,who i must admit did put in that effort to woe me for some time.
I always wonder what would have happened had i gotten the balls to say yes. I would rather not talk about them now. We will when the time is right.
Forgive me if i am drifting off to sensational writing but i am a lady with a checklist (ladies you know we all have this list, if you don't then you really don't know what you deserve)
What Safeminist can and cannot settle for.
1. A man who only thinks of the bottle from 8 AM on a Tuesday his reason being he its 5 PM somewhere in the world...pppfffff.
2. You have the independence to do as you please but again, i need my time WITH YOU... and by time i do not mean me and you hook up to play FIFA 2013, which ad probably beat you at anyways, i need a man in my life not a boy, please.
3. They say age is nothing but a number, then i say jail is nothing but a room. I have had my shares of Justin Beiber age mates making moves at me, Freddy and the likes...you are younger than i am. We cannot happen. I may sound old school but yeah Hun, old is gold.
4. A man is one who takes responsibility for his actions. This i write on the behalf of that woman who got pregnant and the boy who was always in the mood is in no mood to raise that child. Just one thing for you. Shame on you. And you dearie who has taken responsibility of your actions, thank you.
5. That man who cannot be grateful and content with what he has, i do not need you. Just because your girlfriend has some yellow pages or a bigger waist than her hips, i do not need you to compare me with that Nikki Minaj figure you have saved on your desktop. Appreciate me as i am.
Again pardon me if i sound cranky but i cannot settle for less than i deserve.
You could be as rigid as i am on this but yet again, do not ask yourself the what ifs? and more so, it doesn't hurt to try.
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