What happens on the third date?

Now this is a question the person i visited last time posed to me. Honestly, i don't know the answer. I am hoping you would help me find out.
I don't know the answer because i have not been on a third date with these broad chested macho men, they never impress enough or give me a reason to go on a third one.A practical example.
This guy with the unique name i know calls me,invites me for lunch that day am out shopping with my sweet sis so we meet at a restaurant in town.The jamaa having to impress the lady (moi) tells me to order, i look at his shoes, YES shoes and have pity on him. Fries and chicken.he orders TEA. At the brink of Nairobi's hot weather, tea? i shrug.
Chit chat here and there the bill comes.the guy looks at it then that's when he decides to go receive a phone call.15 minutes later no sign.Being the feminist i am, i payed the bill while the son of a man was 'receiving a phone call'

Days later called by another one, responsible this time and i gladly decline the offer in the most charming of ways, thanks to charisma. 

I am not saying all men would do that but niggah please be who you are. "I am who i am",even God said that when Moses asked Him who he was.I do not sleep in church like u do. Anyway piece of advice ladies have cash on a date and gentlemen do not stretch over your elastic limit, u will break.

Back to the agenda, what happens because we have talked all there is, we have passed the formalities. Do not think am scared, i just don't know how to handle such a strong adversarial.but worry not, SaFeminist got it all planned out. Watch this space.