I am feeling guys who have those chicks who would not spend a dime when with a man. "what is his money for anyway?" i could quote a friend of mine who is one of these species.
This lady is not the poorest i know nor is she the richest i know but come on, if you offer to pay the bus fare for once , it would not kill a guy.
"Bruise my ego"
I ask my male friends if they would let a lady pay for a service be it lunch, dinner, or even that bus fare.Their answer, generally, they would not let a mama do that, "she will turn the story on me to look like a loser" (only an immature lady would do this by the way) Some ladies i am told will brag that they fed a guy.
Some male guys would let her pay, "if she invited me then she should pay, if i invited her i will definately own up so that i also get a third date,"
My take,
The day i invite you, for lunch, yes you. I will pay but in the meantime if you keep insisting we hook up, you will pay the bill or we split, (again depending on how well we relate)
So back to the lady on top, she is going out today, invited of course, and all i am waiting for is her to call me i M-pesa her fare to her Friday destination, of course with a promise to refund but i do not expect to happen because i am told real friends don't pay debts they owe you.for real.
Aha,there goes my ringtone, Lady friend calling, gotta go.
Have a fabulous weekend though.
This my take..on the 1st date the dude shuld pay(thats natures rule)btw from thea it shuld either b a split ama the 1 who invites shuld pay..4 friday nites(raves)it shuld definatly b a split an the money given to the dude...4 ua friend i thnk..am xory to xay ths btw she is just naive...or old skul..these days its "wat men kan do women kan also do it beta"such mentality of hers wuld make a dude thnk she is a gold digger an no chq wuld want her man to have such a mentality anyway..
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