Where do you stand in her life?

So my childhood friend James posts this piece he calls, which man are you in her life. It is one of those things you read and at the end of the first para you are smiling from ear to there. That was intentional you Grammar Nazis.

You know what instead of copy pasting why don't you give it a view yourself, its here and give him feedback as to what you think.

That post has made me come out of my cocoon, as you can see, such joys you get from reading literature that is on point.

Enough of the promo now, onto re-posting his post now from a female's perspective. With his permission of course.

So guy number one is refered to as The Lead.
This is the optimum prime of the relationship. This is the guy whom you tell your friends to keep quiet coz you are picking his call, and they do. Even your friends respect him for who he is to me.
The lead is the man i can cancel my plans for, He is the one i let pick a restaurant and i pick where to sit. This is the alpha. The man i go to when i need serious adult advise. Not a boy's opinion. The  lead is respected, he is the head of the pride. As a man ask yourself when you call her and she is like "my friends don't even keep quiet its noisy I'll call you later" if YES then scroll down, there is a type for you here, you are not among the leads.


James says there is the Co-Star
In his words "You know you guys didn’t watch spiderman because she wanted Godzilla,so because you didn’t agree,that took the road down south"
This type exists. in the sense that whatever you do it is half half. A power sharing pact. in my opinion it is not entirely feminism that breeds this but it is rather a matter of her not willing to sacrifice her portion of the half for you. 

 Supporting Role.
i will compare this typa guy with a bra. Us ladies buy bras with regard to how we it makes my "arrival" look like. This are the guys you take to your friends party because he is hot or endowed, he will drop me pick me or take me around. This guy is disposable as soon as a better bra is in the picture.  They never last long by the way, so ask yourself does she only call you when she doesn't have fare, or only when her purse was stolen. you are a bra. or better yet she gives you hopes that you will get off the zone coz you took lunch to her when she was at the salon. Dude, don't be wifed, you can be someone's lead you know.


My friends and i have a phrase for those guyz who are always there but not moving anywhere, we call them  button pressers.
AKA camera man.
We will be blunt, "The basic thing is,you’re the guy in the super background. She won’t even dance with you on a night out and if she does,it’s not sensual. Maybe because she knows you’ll buy her a Jameson after the dance? She has allowed you to think it’s cool to be the way you are,that you’re the nicest person she knows. That you don’t try to change her or pressure her.
And that my guy is why you’re last on my list!"

Until the next post, Sacho signing out.